I don't have kids, but the title of this post comes from the title of
Chris Danielson's blog by the same name.
I was at the laundromat tonight, and as I was pulling my clothes out of the washer, I noticed an elementary-aged girl working on math homework. She was telling the adult with her that she had to "count by fives from six to fifty-five." She was working on the list when she said with frustration, I hate math! The adult said you can't county by fives like that because it doesn't work out evenly. She ten started counting out loud: "five, ten, fifteen..." The woman then read the problem from the math book herself, and it turned out that it asked students to county by fives from six to fifty six. The girl started sharing her sequence of numbers: 6, 11, 17, 23, 29, ... Another woman with her said: How did you get 29 from that? The girl noticed that she was counting by six's instead of by fives. So she started over. She wrote down 5, 11, 16, 21, counting up from one number to the next. I wanted so much to ask her if she saw a pattern, but I waited patiently as she kept working. When she reached 26, she exclaimed, I got it! I asked her to share her list of numbers. She had erased them, so she started writing them again. The list came more quickly to her this time, and she pointed out that all of the numbers end with a 1 or 6. I wanted to ask her to explain the pattern more, but her parents were talking to me about other things.
Normally, I wouldn't poke my nose in other people's business. I would go about unloading my clothes from the washer, trying to listen unnoticed to the conversation, and leave when I was done. But because I have been reading Chris' work for a couple of months, I was intrigued by what I learn from this girl and her mathematical thinking. So I watched, and in the end got to see a girl go from frustrated to excited about her math homework, which made me very glad!